Ending Cassandra-Complex
Getting back to blogging, a lot of you have requested (since I got 40,000 views on my persuasion blog post) more about the general essence of communication. How right you are and how right you shall be, when you learn more effective communication.
It does depend on your personality, your thought process and overall your archetype. But, there is a fast but here, you can, no matter who you are, if you speak the same language as the person you're communicating too and are from the same culture, generally speaking, enhance your communication no matter how different you are or are as a person.
It does depend on your personality, your thought process and overall your archetype. But, there is a fast but here, you can, no matter who you are, if you speak the same language as the person you're communicating too and are from the same culture, generally speaking, enhance your communication no matter how different you are or are as a person.
Here are four techniques to enhancing your communication:
1. Silence.
Being silent means you're observing, means you're listening. If all you do is focus on your breathing and focus on that as you listen to somebody, asking simple questions to extend the conversation forward; you'll find you project a presence of quiet confidence and power. This is key to any negotiation or any discussion at work or outside of work. Silence also enters the realm of the Libertarian NAP. Which is Non-aggressive principle. If you simply stay silent and calm whilst somebody is talking to you, no matter what it is they are talking about, even if they are oh so lovely ranting, you'll to everybody else, project this calm powerful persona.
2. Stand Tall.
You want to resemble an alpha-creature. Lift your chin up slightly, push your chest out slightly, open your legs a little more; stand tall, stand strong. This communicates unconsciously to the other person, that because you're exposing your vital areas and organs, you're okay with those areas being exposed... What does that mean? You're the alpha.
You want to resemble an alpha-creature. Lift your chin up slightly, push your chest out slightly, open your legs a little more; stand tall, stand strong. This communicates unconsciously to the other person, that because you're exposing your vital areas and organs, you're okay with those areas being exposed... What does that mean? You're the alpha.
On this topic, that is proven, but you can double-check me on this one and do your own neuro-scientific body language research.
3. Know Who You Are.
This one is the most simple, yet not the easiest. If you actively create your own reality by creating what you think in terms of politics, religion/non religion, finance, etc; if you create your own conscious beliefs you will understand your position on ideas and discussions much more easily.
This means you need to actually study specific fields, have a think about what you desire in politics, think about what you should be like. Then, you can clearly communicate your ideas.
4. Practice Speaking.
You must stand in-front of the mirror and breathe; focusing on your voice and focusing on your words. Get clear with your speaking, speak middle-to-fast, speak clearly, speak properly. This helps massively.
And you know what, have number five for the sugar on top.
5. Know When You're Wrong.
Don't always be right; in fact, you don't always want to be perceived as right. The moment you're an expert in something, you're perceived as an expert in all fields, unconsciously by other people. This is false logic and you shouldn't ride the wave of stupidity with this fake superiority. You must, if you want to enhance your communication; admit you're wrong, listen to people, all of the above; and then, allow them to notice your changes, as you learn and grow.
Don't always be right; in fact, you don't always want to be perceived as right. The moment you're an expert in something, you're perceived as an expert in all fields, unconsciously by other people. This is false logic and you shouldn't ride the wave of stupidity with this fake superiority. You must, if you want to enhance your communication; admit you're wrong, listen to people, all of the above; and then, allow them to notice your changes, as you learn and grow.
There we have it, a short burst of energy for you before you start your day or before you go to sleep at night!
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